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Rejection Sometimes, Is Too Much

May4
Rejection Sometimes, Is Too Much

Dear Dee:
I am really sick of being knocked down. I am tired of putting myself out there and getting rejected. When is enough, enough?
How about when your dead … that’s when enough is enough. Don’t ever stop trying to find and get what you want or achieve what you want to achieve.
Now this doesn’t mean [...]

Friend Makes Out With Everyone

April29
Friend Makes Out With Everyone

Dear Dee:
    I am 16, and have this friend who makes out with just about every guy I know and some she doesn’t even know. Sometimes she knows I might like him but makes out with him anyway. She keeps telling me that it’s just a problem and she can’t fix it, so I just believe her. We [...]

Not Sure If She Likes ‘Player’

April29
Not Sure If She Likes 'Player'

Dear Dee:
I’m not really sure if I like this guy. He’s really sweet and everything but he’s kind of a player. I just don’t want to get hurt. Can you help me?
There isn’t a rule anywhere saying you have to go out with this guy or like him — on his time table. If you’re [...]

I Like Him, But Turned Him Down

April27
I Like Him, But Turned Him Down

Dear Dee:
I’ve liked this guy for ages, but he’s really confusing sometimes. He acts like he likes me then other times he doesn’t. He asked me out and I just felt really angry for some reason so I said no. He didn’t speak to me for a few days and he wouldn’t hug me for [...]

She Needs And Wants Friends

April22
She Needs And Wants Friends

Dear Dee:
I come from a military family, so I’ve moved a few more times than most people my age do (I’m 17). Until my dad retired 4 years ago, the longest I ever stayed at one school was 3 years. I’ve been in my current school district 6 years. 
I don’t want to say I don’t have friends, because [...]

‘Free Hug Day’ Is Major PIA

April22
'Free Hug Day' Is Major PIA

Dear Dee:
 All of the ‘popular’ people set up this thing called ‘free hug day.’
It’s like every first Monday of the month or something like that. So, this guy gave me a hug on free hug day and he also hugged me on a day that wasn’t free hug day. Does that mean he likes me? [...]

Boyfriend’s Persecuted … Is It Worth It?

April19
Boyfriend's Persecuted ... Is It Worth It?

Dear Dee:
I want to begin by thanking you for the last bit of advice you gave me. It really helped me move on in the past year or so. My life feels like it is taking a better turn, but more issues have come up.
You see, I have this boyfriend and we’ve been together for [...]

Dissed At Dance & Doesn’t Get It

April13
Dissed At Dance & Doesn't Get It

Dear Dee:
There is this guy I like and he knows I like him. About a month and a half ago, I asked him to a dance and he said ‘no, that he wasn’t going. I was fine with that.
When the dance came around,  he was indeed there. I asked him why and he said he changed his mind. I got mad and I [...]

Overweight Genes Run In Family

April12
Overweight Genes Run In Family

Dear Dee:
I’m 13 years old. I’ve always been a really social person. Overweight “genes” I  guess you could say, run on my mom’s side of the family, and lucky me, I got them (including the big feet gene, yay!). No one has ever really made fun of me about my weight, and honestly, I don’t [...]

Feeling ‘Leader’ Doesn’t Like Me

April10
Feeling 'Leader' Doesn't Like Me

Dear Dee:
I love reading all of your advice and have been thinking a lot about some stuff and would like an opinion.
There is a girl I’ve known since i was a freshman in high school (I’ll be a senior this fall). I met her because we are both in the band program and the only [...]

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